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Will I feel uncomfortable if I'm not in perfect shape?
Certainly not, in fact no"body" is perfect and without the clothes you really
do feel on equal ground with everyone  else. The people are so friendly
and really welcome you.
What are the ages of most of the people?
Some resorts are for families and some are adults only, (18 yrs and up).
Whatever your comfortable with.
What if I've never been before, and I'm shy?
The great thing about clothing optional resorts is that they don't put
pressure on you and allow you to ease into it on your own. Some women do walk
around topless, and may have a Wrap or Sarong around the bottom...It's up to
you, most resorts require nudity  in the pool areas, but that is imposed so that the
other guests don't feel uncomfortable, and you would probably feel strange being
the only one dressed.   
I'm a guy and I worry about"something happening" , what if it does?
Most of the guys worry about that the first time, but soon realized that they do
have control and even if it did happen your towel makes a great camouflage.
You must use a towel to sit on in any public areas so most people carry one.
Are most nudists "Swingers"?
The Nudist lifestyle attracts people from all walks of life and swingers are among
the many types of people that enjoy the "lifestyle" .
I feel strange being nude around kids , are they always at the resorts.
There are different types of nudist resort some cater to adults and some to
families if it really bothers you check the resorts out and ask questions, many
resorts have separate areas available for adults and families and children are not
allowed to be at the clubs and hot tub areas anyways.
Can you eat at the restaurants nude?
In my experience  about 80% dress, usually sexy clothes or topless and a wrap
but you always have to carry something to sit on in public areas and some prefer
to be completely nude and thats just fine too
What can I expect at a Clothing Optional night club?
The clubs are just like any other except you can forget the clothes and
inhibitions. The dances are time for people to have fun and express themselves.
It can get wild and people do flirt but obvious sexual behavior is never permitted.
Most of the women dress to impress, but again anything goes as far as clothes.
I've seen everything from just a hat and high heals to a sexy gold dress to nothing
at all,  and men might wear a sexy shirt unbuttoned and shorts or just the shirt
and some prefer long pants and no shirt or nothing at all its all about freedom.(
my Sexy Essential Page give you great ideas for the clubs.) The dances are
always fun
What do you do if another couple makes unwanted advances?
There are all types of people at the resorts and some may flirt,  but don't mistake
flirting for ;  just being friendly because most of the people in the lifestyle are
very  friendly, and most wave and says hi. But If you think someone is more
interested than you want them to be,  most people are discreet and they should  
be able to catch your vibe.
And the standing rule is always "NO MEANS NO!."
Guy: I'm worried about my size,will I feel embarrassed.
The #1 concern for guys is that they think there manhood is too small,nobody
goes around sizing up mens genitals, and believe me,most men in there relaxed
state are pretty much the same.
I want to join the lifestyle, how do I get started?
You have already begun, just by being here.I would say make an appointment at
a resort of your choice, you can check resorts out on my USA page or exotic
destination page, and set up a tour, most resorts welcome new nudists and a
good place to start is clothing optional resorts, where there are no pressures and
you can enjoy the lifestyle at your own pace, I love the resorts in Florida and a
great first place to start is Caliente resort & spa or Paradise lakes resort, but there
are great resorts in almost every state. Most resorts have members and welcome
visitors you will probably have to pay for your room or campsite and an additional
resort fee usually around $30.00 per couple or 20.00 for single. Most resorts are
very affordable, and If you want to go to an exotic resort the check out my exotic
destination page I have joined with Castaways Travel to help make your vacation
plans a success.
How can you tell if couples are swingers?
Actually most swingers are discreet and you might not know unless they are
interested and then it would be like any other flirtation: a smile, a glance, The
only difference is that it would be both husband and wife. Then if the flirtation is
not rejected they might initiate a friendly conversation, But like I said It can be
very subtle and ,its a fun and friendly  community so everyone smiles and
greets each other, but you should  be able to feel the vibe. Then its up to you
how you handle yourself.
Common Questions
Experiences
                Our first  Trip to a nudist resort

On our first trip to a nudist resort, we went on a tour and were driven around on limo golf
cart...I don't know what we were expecting, but we were shocked at first its not something that
we had ever experienced. I couldn't even look around at first because suddenly you feel like
the odd ball for wearing cloth but soon felt very welcome and the people were so friendly
...Well we have been going to nudist resorts now for about 4 years and loving every minute of
it...you feel so free and equal with everyone else  from doctors to doormen we are all the
same when our clothes come off and it re-awakens the kid in us all.

                                        Sarah and Joe
                        Having fun In Paradise!
We went to paradise lakes in Florida for Labor day weekend, we had been to nudist resorts
before but this place was wild... I'm 47 years old and have never been down a slip -n-slide
before but they had a huge inflatable one set up and next thing I know, some woman
squirted soap on me and away I went...and ended up in a pile of naked bodies at the end I
had so much fun, I didn't know I would ever be able to just let loose like that. And the
conversation pool after bar close....well you have to experience it at least once it's this long
narrow winding pool and late at night everyone gets wild, I thought closing the bar was the
end of the evening...I was sooo  wrong : )
                                        Just Me
                               Au-Natural?
What used to be considered au-natural is now groomed and shaved. The first resort that I went
to  I thought I'd see a bunch of old naked hairy naked bodies, but most people were shaved ,
groomed and looking very sexy: move over "naturalists".  I think The sexual revolution has
integrated with the Nudist community and created a bran new lifestyle!

                                      Party Naked!
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    It's not a first experience, but a memorable one.
We went to a resort in Michigan during Bike Week!, and They were having a bike relay and the
guys would drive and the women had to ride on the back and with just there mouth,  bite a hot
dog with whipped cream hanging from a tree and who ever took  biggest bite won, that was
funny and just one of the many events that stood out.
                                          Biker Bob
                         Wife a Dancer?
We were at the club At Caliente in Florida and my wife had a few drinks and she started
dancing with some of the other ladies on the dance floor you know like girls do, and the next
thing I knew they were all dancing up on the stage like strippers giving a show it was awesome
seeing my wife acting so young and care free shes 43 and that night she looked 21 again...It
was like seeing her for the first time again.
                                       Young Again.

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